Definition
Post-separation abuse refers to abusive behavior that occurs after a relationship has ended, such as a breakup or divorce. This type of abuse can take various forms, including emotional, psychological, verbal, financial, physical, or sexual abuse. Post-separation abuse can be perpetrated by an ex-partner or spouse who seeks to maintain power and control over the survivor even after the relationship has ended.
Common examples of post-separation abuse include stalking, harassment, threats, manipulation, gaslighting, withholding financial support, using children as pawns, and spreading false information about the survivor. This type of abuse can be particularly harmful as the survivor may already be vulnerable and trying to move on from the abusive relationship.
What Is Post Separation Abuse?
Harassment and Stalking: This can include repeated phone calls, text messages, emails, or showing up uninvited at the other person's home or workplace.
Threats and Intimidation: This may involve threats of physical harm, spreading rumors or lies, or using children to manipulate or intimidate the other party.
Financial Abuse: This can include withholding financial support, draining joint bank accounts, or refusing to comply with court-ordered financial obligations.
Emotional and Psychological Abuse: This can involve gaslighting, manipulation, guilt-tripping, or other forms of emotional manipulation to control or harm the other party.
Legal Abuse: This involves using the legal system to harass, intimidate, or financially drain the other party through frivolous lawsuits, false accusations, or other legal maneuvers.
Sexual Harassment/ Sexual Abuse: post-separation abuse, sexual harassment and sexual abuse can be used as a way to exert power and control over the victim, even after the relationship has ended. This type of behavior can be particularly damaging as it can further traumatize the victim and make it difficult for them to move on from the abusive relationship.